Inside Openarms, all are welcomed

By BILL SHERMAN World Religion Writer - 11/7/2009


Openarms Youth Project seems like a typical youth hangout.

Posters and original artwork adorn the dark interior walls of the modest building at 2015 S. Lakewood Ave.

On Thursday evening, smokers stood outside the door welcoming visitors.

Inside, a couple dozen young people stood around in groups, laughing and talking. Some sat at computers. Others finished up a lasagna supper. A pool table sat idle.

But at 7 p.m., as the teens gathered in a circle of folding chairs for what they call "group," it became evident that this was a safe haven for gay teens in a world that can be hostile to them.

And it was evident they loved the place.

"We're all like one big family here; no one judges you," said Kat Weaver, a Holland Hall student.

"I'm friends with everyone," said Misti Teufel, "What else could you ask for in a home? This is a home for youth."

Teufel said she loved it at Openarms because "you have no clue who is straight and who is gay."

Ben Crittenden said the center "helps me be who I am, and not be afraid."

Marriah Phillips said, "This place inspired me to come out. That's why I still come."

The center is open every Thursday for dinner and a group discussion, and every Saturday for a party, with music and dancing.

Founder Tim Gillean said about 200 young people attend on Saturdays. The $4 admission fee pays the rent and utilities.



Bill Sherman 581-8398
bill.sherman@tulsaworld.com


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Tulsa World Reader Comments
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Few Clothes, America (11/7/2009 8:26:15 AM)
It sounds like a good refuge for the young to assemble and socialize.

Tim Denver, Denver (11/9/2009 3:21:07 PM)
J C OK, says "Boy, we sure get lots of gay articles in the Tulsa World. Why? You may not be aware, but Tulsa has a very large gay community. Must be something in the water....

vrcTulsa, Okmulgee (11/11/2009 11:43:46 AM)
I am glad to hear that there is somewhere GLBT teens can go and talk about the issues they are facing. I wish more places like this existed in other parts of Oklahoma and the nation.

cowboyneok, Tulsa (11/7/2009 9:15:18 PM)
Just want all the LGBT kids to know your older LGBT members of the community value and love each and every one of you as our little brothers and sisters. You are our future! Also, we've got your back 110%...

charlestace, Tulsa (11/7/2009 9:50:20 PM)
J C OK, it's because Tulsa has a lot of gay people. At one point, Tulsa was #2 nationally in percentage of gays. Don't know if it's still the case, but the fact that the World runs stories on gays is not a conspiracy or anything.

J C OK, Tulsa County (11/7/2009 9:32:40 PM)
Boy, we sure get lots of gay articles in the Tulsa World. Why?



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